I love the fact that people have assumed I have trouble with women or lack confidence, because I don't think highly of societal relationships today.
Even though my first post was this:
Well what helped me with women was hypnosis. Find a hypnosis, or create one yourself, that focuses on confidence with women and not being hung up on one girl. Hypnosis can do magic for creating a different outlook on life and situations. It requires practice going into trance, but just stick to it by listening before bed every night (as you're going to sleep anyway). And eventually your personality can shift in a huge way, where something that has been a big deal for you for a long time, doesn't seems like a problem at all anymore.
Yet some how I've been portrayed as a bitter envious man who never gets laid or get girls, even though I've actually been in a committed relationship with my girlfriend for the last 6 years.
But even if I wasn't any good at getting women, or I didn't have a long term girlfiend, or I was still a virgin. My opinions on the decline of relationships in today's society would still be the same. I don't think it's right men and women sleeping around like no other, and divorce being at an all time high (42%).
Call me a stuck in the mud, call me conservative, call me traditional, but from what I see around me, men and women aren't happier, they're sadder, more frustrated, more vain, and more selfish. Neither are their children happier when they have to grow up with their mother and father being seperated or not around.
But then again I don't really give your opinions much credence when you talk to people the way you do. I expressed my opinion in the most neutral way possible, and one the first things you say is:
Shut the fuck up about women being happier in marriage in past generations.
Not very professional is it, telling someone to "shut the fuck up".
Or.
Derp.
If you are going to be so rude in your posts, then don't be so surprised when you get a sarcastic reply back. If you dish it, you better be ready to take it, because not everyone bends over backwards because you're a woman.
I'm sorry you seem to think I have a low opinion of men or whatever because evolutionary biology is my general go-to perspective in all things involving living organisms. It may be because that's my career focus, or because I'm just nerdy-retarded that way I suppose. I'm as flawed as any other person.
Well you guessed right here, even though I never mentioned what I thought about you personally, I agree with you, I do think you have a low opinion of men. But not because evolutionary biology is your go-to perspective, I think that's just an excuse. I actually think you're somewhat of a misandrist. Plus you're generally an angry and rude person who lashes out if anyone has an opinion contrary to yours.
In the future, if you want to have a professional debate on your points with people, you should probably speak to other people in a more professional matter.
I think it's funny you believe I was whining about your "rudeness" and blah blah blah because I'm a woman. Where did that come from, why did my gender come into it at all? I never said anything that should even vaguely imply such a thing. You came up with that all by yourself. And you wonder why someone might get the impression you have a problem with women.
I actually don't think you were rude. Just snarky, but I believe it was in your right. Not to mention, I fully expected an irrational knee-jerk reaction from at least one person here. You want to see people be rude to each other? Get into religion debates, that's where the real fun is.
But who here starting bitching about "rude" posts? You did.
Who made sweeping, disparaging remarks about the opposite sex? You did.
You do not represent all men, having a low opinion of you does not extend to the rest of your sex. How ridiculously narcissistic of you to think so. Men are awesome, I see a few right here in this thread, and there is nothing you can do that would impact my general view of men.
You also said: "even though I never mentioned what I thought about you personally"
After saying with obvious sarcasm: "You sound absolutely charming, I'm sure any man would love to be your husband. The best in luck in finding him."
Yeah, I'm sure everyone here still thinks you're a credible, reasonable person. Do you even pay attention to the things you post?
I wasn't the only nor even the first person here to get the impression you have some issues in the romance department. That's exactly how your little rant about slutty, shallow women and poor deprived lonely men (60% of men, lol, remember that bullshit statistic?) came off to the people reading this thread. That's also exactly when this thread started getting ugly. Again, you seriously need to give your statements more thought before posting.
And what's all this nonsense about professionalism? Where are you pulling all this from? We were supposed to be having a "professional debate"? Lmao! Is that what you think that was? That's cute.
Sincerely.