Stress-induced cognitive decline, without such Depersonalisation/Derealisation symptoms, are not necessarily related to Glutamate and Kappa - they're related to actual, PHYSICAL damage to the brain, caused by excessive cortisol-exposure of the Hippocampus - in essence, what you are describing is BURNOUT, which can be classified as a sort of "depression PLUS".
Traditional antidepressants are INEFFECTIVE against the cognitive damage which Burnout causes - the reason is because they only cause a maximum of 5% hippocampal growth! Tianeptine is believed to cause somewhat greater of an effect, but it's unclear how much more - the only drug which would theoretically TRULY give gains here is NSI-189 - 20% hippocampal growth - 4 times more effective! = )
I think, what you need to do, is to stop thinking about your stress-induced symptoms as a mental disease, but as an actual PHYSICAL disease - it's actually more akin to the cognitive brain-damage which alcoholics are struck by - those symptoms are also long-term, and very difficult to treat, even after recovery from the alcoholism - the brain-damage will still be there.
I myself was diagnosed with ADHD-PI at the age of 28 - however, I was not struck with burnout until a few years later, when I tried to TRULY change my life and push forward, no matter the cost, to GET the life I wanted to have, even though my disability stood in my way - the result was catastrophic burnout.
A small note regarding Atomoxetine - if you are ADHD-PI it's more likely to help, but if you are just traditional ADHD-C, then it's not likely to help - if you identify more with ADHD-C, then consider shifting to a dopaminergic like DextroAmphetamine instead.
I myself do not identify with ADHD-C, at all, in fact, I don't identify with my ADHD-PI diagnosis even! Instead, I identify with a disease called Sluggish Cognitive Tempo - unlike ADHD, SCT is not dopaminergic, it's Norepinephrinergic, hence why I am currently trialling Atomoxetine to treat the symptoms.
References:
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Understanding the burnout experience: recent research and its implications for psychiatry
https://www.ncbi.nlm...les/PMC4911781/
Long-Term Mild, rather than Intense, Exercise Enhances Adult Hippocampal Neurogenesis and Greatly Changes the Transcriptomic Profile of the Hippocampus
https://www.ncbi.nlm...les/PMC4464753/
(slight exercise have been noted as a treatment-option for patients suffering from occupational Burnout here in Scandinavia - the above study confirms WHY that is the case - this region is also, for some reason, the one which is struck the most with the syndrome - perhaps because of genetics)
Fear of terror and increased job burnout over time: Examining the mediating role of insomnia and the moderating role of work support
http://onlinelibrary...2/job.1980/full
(problems with insufficient sleep, which nearly EVERY ADHD-er suffers CHRONICALLY from, will also make it harder to recover from the brain-damage)
Chronic Stress Can Damage Brain Structure and Connectivity
https://www.psycholo...nd-connectivity
Stress and glucocorticoids promote oligodendrogenesis in the adult hippocampus
http://www.nature.co...mp2013190a.html
Traumatic stress: effects on the brain
https://www.ncbi.nlm...les/PMC3181836/
Stress Predicts Brain Changes in Children: A Pilot Longitudinal Study on Youth Stress, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, and the Hippocampus
http://pediatrics.aa...119/3/509.short
The brain and the stress axis: The neural correlates of cortisol regulation in response to stress
http://www.sciencedi...053811909005837
(notice how cortisol and the hippocampus is brought up again, and again, and again...)
Regarding Tianeptine's potentially greater effect on the symptoms than traditional antidepressants:
Tianeptine: An Antidepressant with Memory-Protective Properties
https://www.ncbi.nlm...les/PMC2701287/
Neurobiological and clinical effects of the antidepressant tianeptine.
https://www.ncbi.nlm...pubmed/18072812