A Throwaway Life
To Those Who are Angry : A Plea For Life Extension
This letter is a desperate plea and is addressed to all those people who know what it feels like to run out of time. Perhaps one of the worst feelings possible is to have to over simplify one’s life simply because the human life span is too short to do even a small fraction of the things we would like to do while we are alive. I’m a writer, a thinker, and once an over zealous renaissance man.
Now at age 26 I’m already feeling a shortness of breath, not physically but psychologically. For many people in my age group, especially those educated and intelligent enough to be understanding and sensitive to this idea, it feels as though now what? At age 26 I would like to believe that I have just started to really understand my life and actually know for once what it feels like to be in control of myself and where I am headed. I have only begun to accumulate what “could and should” be a life of complex and fascinating experiences. However for many in my peer group it feels hopeless and pointless to get too enthusiastic about anything for the simple fact that there is not enough time; not enough hours in a day to get done all that one would hope to. My life feels too rushed and I wish I had more time.
It feels horrible to have to sacrifice one’s ideals, and dreams to a watered down and mundane existence. And it feels even worse to have to live with all that passion that life gives us, but know the majority of it will simply go to waste, for life forces us to “slow down” even when we so desperately don’t want to! I see it all the time in people these days. Many don’t even realize it but they choose a life of conformity and simplicity because whenever they try anything too lofty they run into a brick wall. We’ve become a society that communicates in sound bytes rather than attempt any form of communication that takes more than a few seconds of time. Why? because of time and human fear. It’s sad to think that all this potential is being wasted simply because of lack of time to use even a small fraction of our potential. But what can we do about it? One way is to consider life extension.
I don’t know of too many people these days that can’t relate to the feeling of living in a chaotic quagmire we call life. Whenever I walk through Cambridge and Boston I see desperate people, avoiding eye contact, and panicking with the realization that to see others like you is to see your own mortality flash before your face. And when that life feels cut short the only feelings that accompany it are sorrow, anger, and ultimately depression and bitterness. If my plea sounds a little on the heavy handed or bitter side it is nothing compared to the way many people feel these days.
It shouldn’t be such a hard thing to accept that we age but it is; quite simply it is probably one of the most difficult things to have to accept in one’s life. Seeing someone once so full of life and vitality suddenly looking old and frail is upsetting no matter how much we would not like to think it is. Especially now with so many people working out regularly it is so upsetting for people to lose all that they worked for as they age. I’m quite sure that it’s a myth that the actual aging process should be a sign of “a well lived and worn through life.” Instead we’re quickly realizing that it’s the experiences we cherish, and the maturity that comes with aging, not the actual physical process itself. I know of friends who in their twenties are already getting gray hairs and are becoming angry and sometimes depressed, because it’s as if their genes have taken over and have already told them what they will become and what they have to look forward to from that point on. I’m sorry but getting gray hairs at 22 has nothing to do with maturity or any other similar sounding hogwash.
Having to live life in super “sped up” mode as if we’re all trying to diffuse a bomb is a sad thing. So I plea with the science community and especially concerned people who are aware of this vital issue, to continue to support genetic research in regards to issues concerning longevity, such as stem cell research . Donations to non-profit sites such as this one are vital for these changes to take place. Life is too precious to keep throwing away human potential like this. Through donations, word of mouth, as well as informed lifestyle choices we can combat this problem. I personally believe we.should have life spans of at least 120 years or more. For me, 90 years of complete health and wellness and the next 30 to “wind down,” would certainly be more optimal than the current Darwinian hell that we are living in. Sound crazy? Throwing away human potential is a far crazier concept for me to digest. And of course those who do not wish to live that long could choose not to. But for those who really value a full life and all that it could be and should be, please hear this plea, get angry at apathetic people who don’t seem to care one way or the other, and support genetic research.
Ultimately it’s up to the individual to make this decision. As a person who values life itself you should take control of your life and start being able to 8notice the people who care about humanity vs. those that are lazy and don’t care one way or another. A bell should ring each time you find yourself among people that would rather ignore these issues vs. people who really care. Get involved yourself and continue to support sites like The Immortality Institute.
Edited by dfowler, 29 September 2003 - 07:56 PM.