Thanks for all the replies guys.
I would like to reply to all the replies but I really don't have the mental energy for it at the moment so it will be something for later. I do have a need to post this post because it's on my mind a lot.
The more I think about my situation, the more I think I suffer from simple type schizophrenia, I seem to be afflicted with almost all negative symptoms.. I've never had any of the positive symptoms.
I know a lot of the negative symptoms do overlap with things like depression, dysthymia etc. but the fact I can't remember being much different than I am now. I do remember I used to anticipate to things more when I was a kid. But I don't remember much of my youth either..
I've had another intake assessment last Friday in the process of being diagnosed. I'm going to participate in a couple of tests this month. In the first week of Oktober they hope to be able to diagnose me.
I've ordered the MAO-I moclobemide. I still have my citalopram medication. I'm definitely going to try what jaiho posted. I also am using NSI-189 for a couple of days, but so far I haven't felt any difference but I am especially putting some hope in the improved neurogenesis. I do seem to feel a little bit more calm though, but I don't know if that's because the NSI.
I know I shouldn't jump to conclusions too soon, especially without an official diagnosis but I've somehow 'feel' it's something that can't be treated well. I've been so indifferent to everything for as long as I can remember, can't attach to people, have weak emotions especially the positive ones, lack affective empathy etc. I really doubt something can change this and the idea I'm stuck this way while 95% of the people on Earth take the aspects I never experienced for granted. I've been this way for so long, this is my baseline and I don't know better.
Strange thing is I can feel jealousy VERY strong. Last night I thought about my ex moving on and kissing with another man and I had a very strong jealous response: I've felt a strong adrenaline rush troughout my heart, heavy stomach and I felt hopeless. I can't feel love but I still think about her a lot. I had these strong jealousy responses before I used NSI btw. Thing is: most emotions are absent. Why can I feel jealousy SO strong? And why does music give my an emotional response?
Things like the jealousy make my think I suffer from narcissist personality disorder (covert), because I can't seem to love HER but the memories we shared (narcisstic supply). She could make me feel good when we cuddled etc. and I enjoyed activities we did together. I even cried when she arranged something special for my birthday. Does this make sense? Am I overthinking things? I sure don't feel grandiose or manipulate people though. But I could think positively about my ex when everything went well, but in situations I felt she wasn't honest I could be a little bit passive agressive.
I've been reading so much about all the possible labels I get tired of it. Some labels do resemblence my symptoms but also symptoms which are not. As I said earlier a lot of things overlap. I sometimes do think I'm a sociopath, but things like depression can also cause sociopathic traits.
The only thing that pushes my trough this situation is the idea I somehow someday may be able to experience all those things I cannot now. My life now just has no purpose.. I don't want to be alone, but when I'm with people I'm not fully able to connect. I do make jokes and it raises my mood but the lack of empathy and emotional bond results in artificial relationships and give no satisfaction...
I'll stop rambling for now.
Wow...that was exactly me in the beginning when I first developed anhedonia. Analyzing every of my actions and thoughts trying to diagnose myself with an antisocial personality disorder, reading articles about it for hours a day never being sure if I was a narcissist or sociopath. Everyone was telling me I wasn't, but I had not heard about anhedonia before and could relate to some of the symptoms, except the most prominent ones like manipulation and feeling superior. Think it took me like two months to be convinced I wasn't that. Then I notice I had memory problems, aphantasia etc, was sure it was the result brain damage that would ultimately develop into dementia long term. Again, it took me a while to be certain that my brain wasn't harmed. I learned it was all from anhedonia induced by chronic stress. The first six months of when my anhedonia set in was highly stressful and very unhealthy. Thinking I had a personality disorder that would stay permanently, then brain damage, and when I finally learned I had anhedonia, doubting if I would ever get my emotions and life back reading all those despairing comments from people with this condition. All that just made me very defeatist and hopeless for a while, but no... that's just not who I am inside. I have dreams, ambitions and will not have my life ruined by this. I kept going on with my excessive research and understood that most people who have had anhedonia for years, never really tried good treatments. So I informed myself on what could be effective for me reading about what worked for others and I could try. In a way I'm a cheater, some have gotten their anhedonia way earlier than me and had to study the science behind everything on their own, they adapted to their time when they could only rely on themselves. I guess that's intelligence, adaptation. I've been anhedonic for a year now, and feel much closer to getting my emotions back than ever. Before I couldn't stop doubting on what my problem was, then everything took awfully slow to advance, not anymore.
My point is your worries aren't unfounded, they make sense or we wouldn't have obsessed over it both... but I'm going to save you some time. You don't have a personality disorder, you have anhedonia. I guess it took you way longer than me to search for a way out once for all, but that may have to do because you were younger when it set in and didn't realize you were anhedonic. Or maybe because I have a more introspective and obsessive personality. Now that you are trying good meds, that's the first step for you to partial recovery. I will also tell you this. You're not the only one that can feel jealousy without emotions. My girlfriend has like thirty beta males hitting on her on social media I can't tolerate it, but at the same time it makes me feel kind of human and motivates me to do what it takes to keep her I like it. Having a girl that cares for you truly helps, she will make you feel less lonely and worry free. Maybe find a new one? Also, about NSI... personally it took a month for it to kick in last time I tried it so just wait a little before coming up to conclusions. The best advices I could give you are: don't overthink, be positive and be patient with meds. Remember that stress is bad.
Edited by Deaden, 03 September 2017 - 05:22 PM.