The inspiring, empowering or catastrophic realization - based on multiple other factors - that the sum of two is greater than one.
WOW, Harry that is really hard hitting. I totally agree. However, I do not believe love is something you feel for someone. I believe that love is an emotion you feel as a result of what you said above.
This may sound weird and alot of the things I have to say may sound weird but I said to my partner Natalie recently that I don't think that I love her or ever will However, on a day to day basis she stimulates the love within me to rise to the surface. She helps me recognise the love within me by sharing my life with me. Love in that sense, is an inspiration and zest for life.
Of course in the "traditional" sense I love her dearly but I don't see this as something she brings me but rather something that she has shown me by allowing me to be who I am, freely and openly without trying to mold me to her so called "standards."
We are continually motivating each other to be better people from that persons perspective. For example, I am in a punk band and she was one of the driving forces behind me being in a punk band but she doesn't like punk music.
She takes action without thinking about herself. A true act of selflessness. People who know her will attest to this.
So, what is love?
For me, love is a SELFLESS act. For me, love is NOT selfish. Hence, love is NOT what someone else can bring to me. Love is an APPRECIATION of what someone bring to me. Selflessly.
When "love" is selfish and desires, needs and expectations of another dominant the relationship, suffering usually dominates.
You could start a series of topics here
Part I: What is Love?
Part II: How do you maintain a feeling of love?
Part III: If you can find love, how do you let go?
It would also be interesting to explore the question
Part IV: Are pain and love the same thing?