Posted 22 February 2008 - 07:42 PM
I went to a birthday party for the 10 year old friend of my son, recently. The mother I've known for a year, teaches my daughter's dance class. She homeschools, and her neighbor was at the party (also a homeschooler). The first mother homeschools because she travels a lot for her dancing work, and she likes to keep things within her Catholic religion. The second mother homeschools because her youngest who a neuroscientist diagnosed with a brain problem was not getting specialized teaching in our public school system, and she likes to keep things bible based (her son likes the science book). My point is, since this was on a Tuesday night, it was a small party since the kids there were homeschooled--my son was the only non homeschooled kid. These are people I'd 'expect' to be viscerally upset with me being a cryonicist. First I talked of my church, then mentioned it was a Unitarian Universalist church, then much later (after over an hour of us chatting about our lives, our exes, our kids) when I mentioned I wrote--I explained a bit about the futurist issues, and the science we see as possible now, why I like to teach kids --etc. Yes cryonics was slipped in, and my point is that the people thought it seemed interesting, and they smiled and nodded--nothing like the responses that were on-line in that thread. I think people are a lot nicer 'in person', but also when they are evaluating if that person has things in common with themselves if they are 'us' or 'them' / 'normal' or 'weird'. Now in a small one and one situation, I was honestly a lot more careful (in amount of time passed, acknowledgments of agreement on issues, and backstories traded) before I'd mentioned cryonics than I would in an interview. I'm just not that worried about speaking in interviews to a vast amount of people, because I think my reputation stands on its own, and I know people will have their own opinions. I still see and talk to those moms, we still set up playdates, I'm taking the now 10 year old with me roller skating today (I take my kids most Fridays and we bring friends often from their school or neighborhood, sometimes we meet church friends there who come from other parts of town). So, the mother is not 'too concerned about me behind my back' to keep her son from spending an afternoon with our family--and she is quite a caring and concerned homeschooling, religious mother. I know everyone will have their own views about cryonics, but I do like sharing it--since it is so unknown. (neither of those moms knew what it was) It can be seen in that thread that many simply didn't know much about it--that is why I wish we could have a media worthy event, just to get positive exposure (vs. the Williams kind).