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"Lonely" Older People Do Not Know "Busy" Neighbours"


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#1 Droplet

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Posted 19 November 2012 - 11:24 AM


Article from Nusring in Practise highlights the social and psychological miseries that aging brings on members of society:

More than three million people aged 65 and over are not getting any help, support or companionship from neighbours, research shows.
More than 700,000 older people in the UK report that they “always” or “often” feel lonely with over half of all older people considering the TV as their main form of company.
It is claimed loneliness can have the same adverse effects on an older person’s health as obesity and smoking.


Read more here: http://www.nursingin...busy-neighbours

#2 tham

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Posted 03 March 2013 - 04:37 AM

Loneliness kills.


http://www.longecity...post__p__399865



http://articles.time...hronic-diseases


" Even fruit flies that are isolated have worse health and die sooner than those
that interact with others, showing that social engagement may be hard-wired. "

http://health.ninems...-scientists-say


Social interaction-mediated lifespan extension of Drosophila Cu/Zn
superoxide dismutase mutants.


http://www.ncbi.nlm....les/PMC2396722/


This backs up what I have pointed out to many people, especially the younger teens,
what most don't realize - that one could have 10,000 friends on Facebook, but they're
not real - most, exist only in ..... cyberspace. The internet can be an extremely lonely place.


" If, however, you have 4,000 Facebook friends but never see any of them face-to-face,
"there's only a facade of being connected. It can make you lonelier." "


http://www.forbes.co...s-opinions.html



When I first went on the net, it reminded me immediately
of EM Forster's "The Machine Stops", one of the literature
short story books we studied in high school.


Indeed, Forster, when he wrote this over a century ago,
foresaw the cold, mechanical, robotic world of the internet,
long before its advent.

" Forster also sought to establish the value of direct experience,
which is threatened by excessive involvement in virtual communities.
This shows remarkable foresight, and the book describes many nuances
of "online life" over 60 years before the Internet was even invented. "

http://en.wikipedia....tops#Commentary

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Posted 03 March 2013 - 03:33 PM

Loneliness kills.

Caveat, some people can be alone at times without feeling "lonely". Some people desire peace and quiet for long periods of time.

A side issue is that of finances (public and private). Not only does loneliness kill people, it is also expensive, not only because of medical bills, but because they are paying for an entire house/apartment/utilities by themselves. For health and financial reasons, it should be encouraged that single older people live together/have roommates/flatmates.

Edited by Mind, 03 March 2013 - 09:41 PM.


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Posted 03 March 2013 - 07:48 PM

Some of us need long periods on our own to be able to cope with short periods of company, and it's better if the company is very low in number. Sticking some older ASD person in a busy home full of neuro-normals desperately looking for company would be torture.

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Posted 03 March 2013 - 09:41 PM

Some of us need long periods on our own to be able to cope with short periods of company, and it's better if the company is very low in number. Sticking some older ASD person in a busy home full of neuro-normals desperately looking for company would be torture.


Well of course there are varying circumstances. I thought that was implied.

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Posted 04 March 2013 - 11:05 PM

I was really just enlarging on what you said, from a personal perspective. I can't see much difference between going into a home and going straight to hell, ( which, fortunately I don't believe in).




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