Liplex, what a charming post. I was about to sign off the computer and dive into bed hoping for a good dream. Now, you have derailed me.
[quote]I look David Bowie in the face and the elevator jolts to a stop and the lights go dim and flicker. At that moment I woke up, saw the time on my clock state it was 3:12am, and then the power went out before I could blink. If that's not enough, two and a half years later I talk to an ex-girlfriend and she tells me she was in Toronto at that time and crossed paths with...David Bowie...in an elevator. Well? Impressive, heh? There are certainly some personal issues metaphorically dealt with in the first, untold part of the dream concerning the ways my ex-girlfriend and I grew apart. [/quote]
(After all this time at Imminst, I justt mastered using "quotes") If I don't include instructions in this posting, remind me and I'll do it in another. For all the fabulous thinkers here at Imminst, we don't seem to have simple common sense guidelines as to how to use features on the site..but I wander.)
I have to wonder if we sometimes don't selectively sort our memories to make coincidences like this occur. I think we want "to believe" in our dreams the way religious people want "to believe" in their religions. Nothing personal in that observation.
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[quote]I have plenty of mundane dreams that are pastiches of recent events and stories I've come across soon before a dream, and also a number of lucid dreams, and also some extremely disturbing dreams where I had varying amounts of control, so I've run the gamut as far as types experienced. Well, no dreams with people just-deceased. [/quote]
I find dreams that are, as you say, "pistiches of recent events", are very common with me. "Lucid dreams, especially ones you wake up from feeling that they were important are much more interesting.
"Extremely disturbing dreams?" Now, we're talking. I had two incest dreams. In one I was having sex with my Mother. My father was standing there and I was saying: "If we could just overcome the opeodal complex, we could ahve a ball."
When I woke up, this dream did not bother me. I wasn't very close with my Mother. A few nights later, however, I dreamed I was lying on a couch with the Aunt I was living with (with whom I was very close) and we were just rocking back and forth becoming ever more intimate. I woke up from that dream in a cold trembling sweat. Funny how "incest taboos" can be so selective.
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Well, no dreams with people just-deceased or calling from deep beyond the grave. Sometimes it just takes a mind unhindered by expectation to receive something; solid, prepondered doubt will almost always leave you closed to such opportunities. Haha, like ghosts and faeries, right? [/quote]
I've never been visited in a dream by any of the really close loved ones I've buried. However, I am always very interested in hearing tales from others who say some of these people have come to them in dreams.
I have a young Puerto Rican living with me. He claims to have "psychic powers" and tells me my apartment (where my 'wife' and 'mistress' died in different rooms a couple years apart) has "many ghosts" floating about that are watching all that is going on.
I must admit that I don't believe a word of it. Yet, I find the idea very attractive. I think those of us who do not "believe" in whatever actually wish we "could" believe. In fact, I really wish some of my deceased loved ones would visit me in dreams. I suspect I would give their appearance more credulity than perhaps it deserved.
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Oh, and beauty tips? Well, just a dab of clear aloe gel under the eyes tightens up those bags! (Avoid using elsewhere on the face as it creates a sheen; ya don't want to blind people with glare now, do you?) Cheap and not as unsavory as using hemorroid cream. (I sometimes have periods of deeeep undereye baggage. So there. [/quote]
Well, I've only recently heard about Preparation H being used by drag queens to get rid of the bags under the eyes. Never tried it myself. However, I did think about having plastic surgery, not to look younger but to get rid of the sadness that I felt showed in my face from all the hard times I have experienced in life.
I went out one day and this quite ugly older man was coming into the building as I was going out. He had "crows feet" for days around each eye. But, somehow, the overall effect was to create the impression he had been smiling for the last sixty years. I wanted to look like that because I found that I instinctively wanted to "smile back" at him.
At the place where they removed my cataracts, they told me I could come in for a "consultation" and implied that if I "pretended" my sagging eyebrows hindered the sight in my eyes that Medicaid would pay for "cosmetic surgery" around my eyes.
I was really tempted. However, when I thought that even minor surgery like that put your life at risk (Remember Tody Fields! Or perhaps you are too young. She was a very fat middle-aged comedian who died back in the 1970s during a 'face-lift operation'. No face lift would have really helped her!)
In any event, thanks for the "beauty tip". Aloe gel under the eyes couldn't be life threatening. However, if I seem to be crying during my next TV appearance, you will know why.
Now, to help you with using "quotes" I'll just paste two emails regarding it here. Copy and paste these instructions. They will make your use of the site here much easier and much more fun.
--------------------email from DonS explaing how to use "quotes"---------------
err, let me try explaining it again, since I looked at my post and thought it could be explained better. Okay, here goes:
[quote]
Insert text here. [/quote]
If you follow this format you should have no problems. Always hit return after the first quote tag and always leave space between the period and the beginning of the second quote tag. The text inside of the quote tags should always be capitalized and you should never leave a poster's name inside of the first quote tag (example: [quote]) because you will encounter a software bug if you go to edit the post later.
Hope this was more clear.
DonS
And my answer was as follows:
Thank you so much. Now, why isn't there a thread called "How to use this site" where these simple directions can be posted?
--------------------another part of the email from DonS--------------
Also, when you're responding to a post you will get quotes with things like this -- [quote]alsfjrlsajdfklajs [/quote] You should delete the "=DonSpanton" and hit return after the first quote tag. Not delete the "=DonSpanton" will not screw up your post initially, but if you go to edit your post later, it will be all screwed up. Same goes for not hiting return after the first quote tag.
-----------------my resonse to DonS instructions regarding refinements------------
I can't believe how long I suffered from being unable to use "quotes" like everyone else did.
I would elaborate your excellent instructions with a couple added details. I couldn't understand why at first I succeed and the next time nothing worked.
Before putting the first [quote] YOU SHOULD HIT THE RETURN TAB SO THAT IS NOT THE FIRST LINE ON YOUR NEW POSTING. (Caps were just a mistake there)
Also, you mentioned making sure there was a space between the period and the final [/quote] Well, you want to make sure you leave only one space because if you leave two spaces, the quote won't post properly.
I'm having such a ball right now discussing "dreaming" and sharing dreams with others on a thread I started in the new "social sciences" subsection under Immortalism.
Skip philosophy for a few minutes. Come join us in the magical mystical partly-logical and partly-illogical (?) world of dreaming.
Dreamingly yours,
Randy Wicker
Hope this is helpful. I'm going to post these instructions somewhere else tomorrow. (Any suggestions? If these instructions helped you, please feel free to give positive feedback
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Well, I've changed things several times and for some reason what worked a short time ago is not working now. So much for claiming to have "mastered" anything.
Edited by BJKlein, 10 March 2005 - 05:31 AM.