linclinc,
A few brief thoughts:
1. Someone I know with fibromyalgia was very pleased with a bed I had recommended to him. He said it made a big difference.
The one I had recommended at the time was..select comfort. I've since gotten rid of my select comfort for a tempurpedic, but you might try both and see how you feel. Getting a good night's sleep is very important.
I've had problems with the....pillowtop options on beds as it compresses down and then is not fun to sleep on (why I got rid of the select comfort).
2. There is some useful info here:
http://qualitycounts...bromyalgia.html, and magnesium malate rings a bell for fibromyalgia though I've no personal experience with it.
3. Decreasing energy levels and libido sounds like depression. Could you be depressed?
4. Fibromyalgia has a....component of...to use a technical term..mental/emotional stuff. If you do not address this...IMHO...you are not adressing a large component of your illness. This is a non-trivial process to put it mildly.
One useful mini relaxation exercise you might try is here:
http://www.thewayofs...meditation.htmlThere are other tools on the site e.g. more formal meditation, "tuning in", etc. which you might benefit from.
Alternatively there are numerous forms of therapy which might be tried.