Most human beings do not have absurdly ugly faces, unless they are fat or deformed (yes, fat and ugly are interchangeable in some cases, as fat adds a bit of ugly to the face IMO). And most girls I know who many would consider 'hot' are actually very average looking beneath the make up and hair they use to augment their appearance. Ever seen one of those really 'hot' girls after waking up in the morning, with their hair up and absolutely no make up? Yea, they aren't that 'hot' at that moment. It is a long process for many of them to become 'hot'. Shave their heads and prohibit them from wearing any make up at all and you will see which ones are truly beautiful. Of course I do not really condone the latter, just making a point that flies over many peoples heads.
Again, completely agree. There are a lot of average women who look after themselves, and are thought of as "hot" by their male counterparts in this regard, and there are a lot of average women who are fat; very few are beautiful in that they actually look better without makeup*, the natural structure of their face being so appealing that any addition to it lessens rather than enhances its beauty.
(Edit: except a verrrry tiny amount of concealer.)
In that way women have it easier than men. We don't dare ornament ourselves too much lest we are considered 'gay' by the masses (which is odd since men wore make up and headresses before women did historically). For us to be considered as attractive as we can be we have to be 'fit' and somewhat chiseled. But things are changing. I know alot of girls who prefer feminine looking guys. Longer hair, more feminine features, etc.
When women become 'too fit' guys seem to gawk at it with negativity. We want them to be 'skinny fat' to some degree. Lest they have no ass or tits. To me as long as the belly and hip area isn't bulging and rolling, I don't think it is too bad. But belly rolls are a no no for my own aesthetic pleasures. I want a 'fit' woman, but not a body builder. I think I speak for most males when I say that by 'fit' I basically mean belly in, ass and tits out. I think this is an indisputable fact. But I madly respect any woman who goes over the edge with body building and doesn't care what anyone thinks. Why should social cues determine how 'fit' one is? Why settle on skinny fat when you can be a muscle woman?
I think there's a lot men can do to look good without being considered gay. You can keep your skin smooth and young looking with tretinoin. Grow your eyelashes with the natural regrowth products like RapidLash or LiLash. Yes, women do like guys with beautiful long eyelashes - sigh. I know heterosexual men care more about their appearance than they feel comfortable discussing, especially in public.
Though I respect female body builders for their commitment to fitness, I prefer to look soft and feminine. Not flabby, just soft, touchable.
I had another thread last year (I think) about guys and how little they seem to care about their hair until they begin to lose it (lol). It got somewhat volatile. Basically I played the champion to longer hair styles on men and was slightly cut down for saying that guys who simply shave their head in many cases belong to a herd mentality. Another example is with clothing. Somehow it is 'gay' for men to where tight, or extremely close fitting pants. Why this is perplexes me. I never got the correlation between baggy clothes and manliness. Nor shaved heads and manliness. It is ironic though that several men who shaved their heads most of their lives try so earnestly to keep it when they begin to lose it. You would think they'd just shave it off like they usually did. But I guess they want that un-receded 'buzz cut' look?
Getting back to female physique, I find ballet dancers and ice skaters to have the most tantalizing bodies of all female athletes. So very 'fit' yet so very feminine.
Hmnn. I've never liked the buzzed head look on a guy but that's just a matter of personal taste. I'm sure men who buzz while young yearn for their lost hair once it starts to disappear as you've mentioned. That's just understandable. It's human nature. people want to be the dumper not the dumpee.
I never noticed a correlation between gay men and tight clothing. Now I'll be watching. Haha! I agree dancers and ice skaters do have beautifully fit bodies, but they have ugly, and I mean hideous, feet. I work out daily and I'm slender. 115 lbs at 5'6" but Im concerned because I never want to get that ropey look if I age that women can tend to get when they get older. I hope I don't age but you never know.
I would like to know your current regimen in terms of diet and exercise, supplements, etc.
For exercise I prefer cardio. I jog and love to hike. I workout with hand weights but avoid anything that would make me bulky. I enjoy just walking too, and also dance, but I don't dance professionally. In terms of diet I prefer oganic food and eat lots of raw fruits and veggies and cooked veggies as well. I do eat chicken and fish (wild caught only). Lots of greens and herbal teas, no coffee, soda or carbonated bevs. I like grains, but am trying to cut down on them because I want to cut down on anything that might contribute to glycolation. My vitamin supplements are: vitamin C, vitamin E, biotin, B12 sublingual drops, vitamin D, MSM, biosil, and L-Cysteine. I'm thinking of adding L Proline for extra collagen and maybe melatonin and L Trytophan to assist in sleep. I don't take fish oils because I eat enough fish.
What's your health regime?
Nice. I recommend going low carb if you can handle it. Not extremely low, maybe somewhere between 60-70 grams a day of sensible carb consumption.
My regimen.
Age, almost 26.
Regimen for diet is basically pescetarian, with an emphasis on low carb green vegetables such as spinach, kale, green beans, etc. I also prefer other extremely low carb vegetables such as mushrooms, parsley, peppers, etc. I eat alot of shrimp and, less frequently, other types of seafood. No land animals currently. My fat intake is somewhere around 150 or so grams a day due to my carb consumption being around 60 grams a day. Other foods I consume are coconut milk, avocados, sweet potatoes (in small amounts) bananas (in small amounts), organic, raw cheese, omega 3 eggs (about 10 or so a day for protein), small amounts of dark chocolate, ginger root (for androgenic effect) and whey protein, especially on workout days. So you see grains, breads, processed foods are all completely eradicated from my diet, and the only liquids I consume are spring water and herbal teas.
Workout is pretty much a weight regimen 3-4 times a week, 3 sets of 12-15 reps. Usually followed by ab routine and a short but intense cardio session. On the days I am not doing weights I do calisthenics such as jumping jacks, pushups, or pyramid push ups, squats, tricep lifts, mountain climbers, other assorted jumping exercises. I very seldom do not sweat as a result of a decent work out. I keep my mind healthy by reading an assortment of philosophical works, such as anything from Jung to ouspensky to leary. Of course I have the basic IMMINST reading list also, such as the work done by aubrey and ray kurzweil (the age of spiritual machines is brilliant, must finish it some day).
My supplement regimen is not the most extreme but not the most basic either.
I take a multi with no iron, additional vitamins K, D and C. Beta alanine for performance enhancement. L-carnosine for glycation and taurine to counter any brain taurine depletion due to carnosine, it helps further with glycation also. I take astragalus for immune health, grapeseed for the polyphenols, pomegranate extract because I can't tolerate the amount the of sugars in actual pomegranates but I want the benefits of those antioxidants. ALCAR for mitochondrial support, turmeric to counter inflammation, a fish oil supplement to counter any unbalance from 0-6 PUFAs. For skin I take either biosil or jarrosil, MSM (about 4 grams a day) a hyaluranic acid supplement (either liquid or pill form). Zinc picolinate for testosterone boost, soy isoflavones to counter DHT (the biproduct of testosterone), liquid kelp iodine for thyroid health, GTF chromium to aid in fat metabolism, Melatonin for sleep and saint johns wort (german extract, perika) and valerian root for mood.
How old are you?
Edited by TheFountain, 13 November 2010 - 09:26 AM.