SSRIs are excellent antidepressants. They obliterate depression. Totally kill it, stone cold. But, you are right. The SEs are there, and certainly intolerable for a lot of people.
For me, the downsides to SSRIs were;
1. Apathy
2. Not being able to feel happiness or sadness
3. Turning me into a different person (aloof, unemotional, detached) and uninterested in connecting with others
4. Made me slightly manic too, even when the drug settled
5. Made my SAD worse (but improved GAD.. It was awesome, for this)
6. I had one month of the worst mood ever when I gave the drug up (gave up mainly for reasons 1, 2 and 3)
The postives were;
1. Zero depression
2. Regular bowel movements (SSRIs are great in this area, research studies and links between serotonin and the bowel)
3. Zero inflammation
4. Improvement in symptons for my CFS
5. Great sleep
6. Didn't affect my sex drive at all, in fact, made me hornier (I was on a low dose of Lexapro though, a SSRI notorious for being the best of all the SSRIs for sexual function)
7. Cognition returned to normal (depression fucks this royally)
8. More confidence, expect in situations where my SAD disorder would be most vulnerable
9. Better ability to focus, not get stressed about stuff that would normally rot away at my poor brain!
Overall, the experience I had with one year on 1.25mg of Lexapro, taught me a lot of things about myself and my condition(s). I knew that it was time to move on though as the year approached. I wasn't developing as a person and it was as if I was surviving with a blanket around me. I went through the month (in my case) of withdrawal and came out far happier.
I would never recommend SSRIs to anyone, this is just my own personal experience.
Edited by Thorsten2, 29 September 2012 - 07:04 PM.