There is of course the matter of who's alpha you are...
I am my OWN fuckin Alpha. And no man will take it from me.
That's called a lone wolf. No one depends on you and no one follows you, yet you lead by example for any who are watching?
It takes relationships and respect from people if you want more than a lone wolve's minimalistic lifestyle. Respect comes from who you follow or who you lead. Relationships come from your socioemotional capacity which relates to who you are involved with in a role.
No one will take it from you, but the novelty wears off when you realize it isn't useful to be a lone wolf. It is just another symptom of deathism...
Isn't that the truth? As much as lone wolves, like myself, would love, we need others to do anything. Basic survival doesn't enhance the mind at all.
When I think of an Alpha male, I think of someone well put together. Well put together for me would be defined as, easy on the eyes, can handle any relationship with precise directive, business or personal, no money issues, and most people enjoy meeting these people. Physical fitness status can be associated with the alpha male title, but there are plenty of "alpha male" types I've seen that look fine just the way they are. If they look good in a suit, that's all I care.