I know that most of you will think this is crazy or that Im kidding but Im not. I wanna quit masturbating because its against my beliefs but I find it really hard to quit. Are there any herbs, supps, noots, or tips that you know of that can kill my sex drive? I dont want it to kill my sex drive forever, just until I get married.
That's a very good question. I was just about to post something like your question. I wish I could control my sex drive (and sleep for that matter...) like an on/off switch. I am 23 years old and only for about 3 weeks in my life have I had a girlfriend (about two years ago). Most people got drunk and partied in high school and college, I just studied all the time. I never feel any cases of sexual attraction at work. I am an engineer so I am surrounded by men and married women, none which I find attractive. I don't have the time to engage in activities with the specific intention of meeting women -- not direct enough for me. I know there is porn on the Internet, but I stay away from it as I know it will lead to nothing good and only waste my time. So I want to kill my sex drive because it does absolutely nothing productive for me (ironic, I know). Maybe someday if I meet a woman and there arises a need for it again, fine, but for now, if I had the choice of losing it forever or keeping things as they are now, I would become asexual. Actually, I think a relationship would be much more sincere, perhaps boring, but definitely more honest if sex were removed entirely.
Sex drive is just too much of a distraction and it serves no purpose to help me fulfill my goals. I don't think I even want to have kids. And if I decided that I wanted kids, I would probably adopt as the world already has enough people. I dispute the "healthy" benefits of sexual activity as I believe regular cardio exercise can be more beneficial given the same amount of time. There is also the physical and mental negative benefits associated with reproductive functions. So I would like to kill my sex drive, but I see no way of doing it without possible health risks. I read that within the last month or so on the www.betterhumans forum that some guy castrasted himself for this reason (partially). Note that the guy castrated for gender identity reasons also...
See:
http://www.betterhum...03/20/5117.aspx
or
http://www.imminst.o...f=179&t=9844&s=
Looks like most of you have already seen this.
Anyway, it would be nice if I could recapture some of the lost overhead associated with my reproductive functions so that I could align myself more closely to the goals which really matter to me...not baby-making...there are plenty of people who have this as their only accomplishment in life...I want to work on something a little more important and less common...not to sounds like an elitist, but it's about supply and demand. Currently we have too much supply (babies) and not enough demand (high unemployment).
By the way, best way to kill sex drive -- think of your grandmother or mom :-)