Wow so much a reponse. I feel kind of guilty for this thread and the others I tend to... add insanity into.
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That may be Hank, but I know as much or more than you do about being the lone tortured intellectual in a land of filthy mud flinging primates.
Hehehe. touche
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you'll never challenge your beliefs
You don't have to explicate your beliefs that are of a technical calibre rediculously beyond the depth or desire of the common person to such people in order to challenge your belief. Either way, wasting time with the mud-flinging primates isn't really my on my to-do list these days.
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You don't need people who think the same way, you need an open mind that lets you see that even your way of thinking may not be the only correct way.
An open mind has diminishing returns under exceptional conditions (i.e. correctness). But otherwise this is generally a useful heuristic.
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To truly test your ideas speak with the unreasonable and the unclever. What is it about what you say to them that doesn't get through? Why are they unreasonable?
I mean does a particle physicist ask a hobo for help on his ideas? The hobo might say something entirely random that inspires some great meaning in the physicist, but the hobo has no clue what's going on, and doesn't really care to know. People are unreasonable and stupid regardless of their cleverness because they fail to see the most basic (i.e. the most difficult) things in the Universe.
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You may "love" them enough to save their lives, but you don't love them enough to accept their faults and try to see the world through their eyes.
My love isn't for faults. I have no respect for faultiness (not necessarily disrespect though). I think things that are broken are capable of being fixed, in the right way. I have seen the world through the eyes of others. I'm not disconnected from reality, as much as you seem to want to believe it.
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Why is that a big picture issue?
It isn't obvious. It is beyond the scope of this thread. The point is that death is the enemy. That is the big picture.
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I love technology, applied science, theory the whole spiel but I won't for a second forget that as much as I think its the greatest thing ever it won't change the way the vast majority of people operate
That sounds nice, but it's just
not realistic. When computers become something we interface with directly in our minds, things will change so radically and so unimagineably fast that there is just no predicting how we will change, what we will understand, and what people will be like. I think it is incredibly implausible that people will remain fundamentally indifferent from the way the are today when our hardware is drastically upgraded, our software become open to us to modify and add on to, etc.
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So these women who you don't think give any thought to the big picture issues just aren't giving the same value to those issues that you have.
I didn't say they didn't think about "THEIR" big picture. Making a differentiation between "my" big picture and "their" big picture doesn't automaticaly mean that the two are of equal value.
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Get into their heads, try to see the world how they see it for just an instance and you will see that the game doesn't have to be some shallow attempt at being a pimpmaster, its the pageantry required to get that close to someone. Its your hero's journey and your reconnection with the world.
You speak as though I am completely disconnected from reality. You don't understand just how wrong you are. People REALLY ARE horrendously shallow. The hero's journey isn't to get an increasingly fine resolution of stupidity, but to create an increasingly powerful method of solving stupidity.
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I hope the advice so far presented to Guyledouche shows him that getting a girlfriend is the wrong problem.
Daring, Nate. A little presumptuous though?
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That's a joke right?
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(No, I don't have a crazy-huge ego. I hope you can appreciate the subtle humor there.)
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convincing or converting someone to see YOUR big picture is not sharing. Its pushing isn't it?
It's not "my" big picture. There is no "my" big picture and "your" big picture. There is THE big picture. The Universe and everything about it. What I've been trying to say is just that- people that seek *truth*- not "my truth" or "your truth". There isn't a my truth or your truth. There are a lot of things that can be different if they are mine or yours, but truth isn't one of those. The truth *is* regardless of who happens to be knowing it. The truth isn't much of anything, in fact, it's almost nothing. Out of all possible things, the truth is only a super-tiny subset, and a greatly difficult one to find, at that.
At this point I've kind of lost track to what all we are talking about here...
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