Ah damn. Another lonley night, tears on my pillow.
Wonder kisses Mitkat's tears away..................
Finally! [cry] Lol, oh, it's nice to have you on board here.
Posted 02 November 2006 - 08:41 AM
Ah damn. Another lonley night, tears on my pillow.
Wonder kisses Mitkat's tears away..................
Posted 02 November 2006 - 01:26 PM
Posted 02 November 2006 - 01:29 PM
My profile pic is of my boyfriend...he's so dreamy, such a rebel [lol] [lol] [lol] [mellow]
Great catch girlfriend! oh but the second you two break up..........
Posted 02 November 2006 - 02:04 PM
Posted 03 November 2006 - 12:52 AM
AHHH Thank you Mitkat!! nootropikamil, that is just an Avatar pic. They only one I could find of a woman besides I really liked it!. I have no idea how to download pics on this forum. Even if I did I would not use my pic as my avatar. I'll be happy to email you a pic if you want. I have nothing to hide, . I am a 45 year old married woman with 2 beautiful children and three amazing poodles!!
Posted 03 November 2006 - 12:56 AM
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Posted 04 November 2006 - 06:24 PM
Aww yes life is just peachy!!! Kids are great but being a parent is the hardest "job" you will ever encounter. It is also very rewarding!! Just don't immunize your children with vaccines with thimerosol/mercury. Also space them out. Immunizations cause so much neurologicial damage. Why do you think we have so many children with Autism and ADD ? Also FYI the flu shot is loaded with thimerasol. I am only too familiar with the FDA's poisoning of our children. My beautiful 7 year old son is autistic....................... Giving mercury to children on purpose is inhumane. Demand mercury free vaccinations. Cure Autism now!! http://www.awalkonwa...om/trailer.html
Posted 04 November 2006 - 07:56 PM
This is all obviously George Bush's fault. Remember to vote Democrat this election and we will hold Bush accountable for all his wrong doings.
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Posted 05 November 2006 - 02:44 PM
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Posted 05 November 2006 - 05:35 PM
So in summary.......you broke up with your live in girlfriend and need help.
From what has been said you have 2 choices:
In my view
1. Run from what has happened and fill your life with things that will distract you from the pain, or
2. Deal with it. Contemplate. Search for the lesson is this experiance
Oh yeah, whilst I pushing my views I have one last thing to say.
Ignoring the painful/ugly/neutral/nasty/mundane things in life is to ignore a great deal of what makes up the full spectrum of your experiance. Reality.
To only see and listen to the things that make you happy is to live a narrow-minded life. Without eyes. Without ears. You'll be living in a world that's pulled over your eyes that hides you from the truth.
The truth that you're gay and should've come out of the closest along time ago.
'nuff said
[tung]
Posted 05 November 2006 - 05:40 PM
Most of the following may have already been mentioned, but the combination should do the trick:
(1) exercise (1 hour+ daily ... get those endorphins flowing)
(2) see a psycho-pharmacologist ... probably short-term treatment with an SSRI is appropriate. I suspect a sedative like Xanax or Valium is probably counterproductive.
(3) talk to a therapist -- need an outlet for your feelings.
(4) start dating again when you are ready.
(5) avoid alcohol and recreational drugs - these may deepen your depression and add to your issues.
(6) spend time with your friends. Try to avoid isolating yourself.
Like others here, I sympathize. Life will have its ups and downs. This is just a bad "down" and you will get over it eventually.
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Posted 07 November 2006 - 08:17 PM
Dude, I still have residual shit hanging around from my first girlfriend when I was 13. I'm 35 now smile.gif
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Posted 08 November 2006 - 11:45 PM
I have a hard time letting her go. She has already started seeing someone new and they are getting serious. It has been over a month in her new relationship. She says that one day when I am over her she would like to be frieds still. That was the basis of our relationship anyway. It started as very good friends. The part I am having a hard time deling with is that by the time I am over her we will both be differet people and not know each other anymore. I simply won't care anymore.
Posted 08 November 2006 - 11:46 PM
I have an appointment to see a phramacologist ad I am considering taking some sort of anti-depressant.
I just don't know if this is the best long term solution for me. I need something that will pep me up but in a natural way. Gym helps but I can't spend 20+ hrs in there.
Any suggestions?
Posted 09 November 2006 - 10:35 AM
Posted 09 November 2006 - 12:21 PM
Just don't overdo it, or you might wake up the next morning and find yourself married to Britney Spears.You know what cures all ails?
Alcohol + Vegas
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